Thanks, Tobacco: You Killed My Mom



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This video was created over a one-year period. At first, it was just random use of a video camera, plus a few pictures taken during a visit in September of 2006. Of course, this was before we knew that Mom had a collapsed lung. She went in for tests, and it was discovered that she had Stage IV Lung Cancer. As we learned of the cancer diagnosis in October of 2006, we tried to get Mom down to California (from Niagara Falls, Ontario, Canada). It was a race against logistics and paperwork (i.e. obtaining documentation in order to cross a border and travel), which we unfortunately lost. Mom suffered a stroke, ironically on the same day as she received her birth certificate, which would have allowed her to travel to Southern California. The stroke left her left side completely paralyzed, and she was stuck in the hospital, no longer the independent woman she once was. We were summoned to fly up immediately, as we were told by her doctors that her death would not be far behind. Mom proved them all wrong, and lived for four more months. Of course, the quality of life was minimal at best. There was no treatment, since the cancer was discovered so late, and due to the stroke. We have since learned that often times, a biopsy can knock loose cancerous material within a tumor, which can cause a stroke. It was extremely difficult to watch her suffering in a hospital bed, and wondering why her last months had to be made that much worse due to the stroke. So, Mom never did get to come see where we live in California. We continued to videotape the entire ordeal, so that family (who couldn't be with us at that time) could see everything. We ended up with approximately 90 minutes of raw footage, which has been edited down to the 10 minutes allowed here. First, we have done this to honor Mom's last wishes: tell people not to smoke. Second, we have completed this very emotional project to honor her memory, and to help us as we continue through the grieving process. Finally, we are aware that much of the anti-smoking media is not so real to life--it doesn't show the suffering, what the families go through, and the pain that cigarettes actually cause. This documentary is "non-Hollywood". We have omitted certain things that one might find offensive, including her IV, vomiting, bodily functions, and her actual death itself, which was obviously painful. Instead, we have brought many different segments together, which still conveys our overall message: DON'T SMOKE!
In a letter dated September 24, 2006, from Mom: "Try not to worry about my health. I go for a CAT-SCAN on October 4th. I should have the results about a week later. The appointments are taking a long time, so I must not be in such dire shape, or they would rush them. I'm glad you never really had
the desire to smoke. What do your lungs look like after all of those years of second-hand smoke? I can't wait to see you and Patti more often. Gotta go for now. Love Forever, Mom" To conclude, one can compare smoking cigarettes to a slow-motion car accident. At any time, you can get out of the car
before it crashes. It is your choice. Furthermore, you may be driving your own car, but please remember that you take passengers along for the ride.


Tags for this video: Aaron Addiction Anti-Smoking Cancer Cemetary Cessation Charlotte's Cigarette Dangers Death Documentary Educational Family Gray Grieves Hospital Illness KILLED Last Loses Loving Lung MOM Mom's MY Nicotine Parent Premature Prevention Secondhand Shawn Smoke Son Stroke THANKS Tobacco Wish YOU

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wow teens need to ... ( 5 days ago by MipoFilms)
wow teens need to see this
God bless you! Your ... ( 5 days ago by LaResistance2kx)
God bless you! Your mother rests now in heaven. But I give a warning to all people that buy drugs (Legal or Illegal). DO NOT BUY DRUGS! YOU ARE FUNDING THE GOVERNMENT, THE BUILDING OF PRISONS, RIGGED ELECTIONS, UNJUSTIFIED WARS, THE NWO, AND MORE!
This is so ... ( 5 days ago by debzilla)
This is so heartbreaking, God Bless you, I believe this video WILL cause many people to quit smoking. Tobacco killed my mother too :(
Its 2009 and its my ... ( 5 days ago by rockit1)
Its 2009 and its my time to quit . 17 days free and feeling stronger every min. All the best to everyone who wants to stop this nasty habit.The secret is NEVER TAKE ANOTHER PUFF and you too will be free. Aaron seen you jam on your other vids , very cool , great stuff. Best to you and your love ones.
if dont smoke dont ... ( 5 days ago by rockit1)
if dont smoke dont start if you smoke STOP NOW !!!
That made me cry! ... ( 5 days ago by nativehottie29)
That made me cry! My heart goes out to you! I am quitting cigarettes and its been hard. But its harder not to quit. I pray for you and you took wonderful care of your mother. She is smiling down on you now.
My mom stopped ... ( 3 days ago by Juggafreeze)
My mom stopped smoking for a whole year. Now she's lying to me saying that she isn't. But I smell it all over her... My dad thinks I'm paranoid, and judgmental... But I'm not. I don't know what to do. Mom shut the door on me (lying) now she'll have a hard time getting help or quitting because of this. You see what I mean? I cry when I think about her smoking. Smoking changes a person's personality. Makes them irritable, hard to be around... I miss my old mom.. I really want her back..
Thank you for ... ( 2 days ago by sisterjanet4)
Thank you for sharing this. I'm sure it was a painful decision. I hope it helps a lot of people.
i stop smoking today ( 2 days ago by TecktoboyLux)
i stop smoking today
Tobacco killed both ... ( 2 days ago by Geekman333)
Tobacco killed both my parents...but it won't get me. Over a year cigarette free after 22 years on a pack a day...really, I've smoked since conception. If I can quit...you can too.
Good luck to all who try.
Awesome video...gutsy. I salute you.
Peace.
I know some one who ... ( 2 days ago by Celestialtears006)
I know some one who is fighting the tabacco industry right now - and yes they had a voice but the tabacco industry killed their vocal chords it was not only them (relative) but it was also my mother she had a voice too ..it has slaughtered the families not just individuals and let me tell you they will pay for the bullsh*t they promote in this world thou shalt not kill!!!!
My maternal ... ( 2 days ago by Geekman333)
My maternal grandparents also died from tobacco. It took my mother 3 years to die. One day she looked at me and said 'I wish I'd got cancer instead of this'. She started smoking at 17 and died at 63...too young. She smoked untils he couldn't lift the cigarette to her mouth anymore. I gave up for my kids...it's hard but it can be done. Nicotine patches help a lot...at least one isn't smoking.
Peace.
This was such a ... ( 2 days ago by stevenrterry)
This was such a powerful video. I plan to share it with my children. Thank you. I am sorry for your loss.
I just want to say ... ( 2 days ago by JoseVargas281)
I just want to say that out of all the anti-smoking videos this got to me. I am a smoker, and man...I'm gonna try and give it up..PRAY FOR ME!!!
I quit smokng 1/1/ ... ( 1 day ago by GETITGETIT0602)
I quit smokng 1/1/09. Its been very hard, but seeing your video has made it a little easier. I am terribly sorry for your loss, but your mother's message has been received! Everytime I want a cigarette, I watch your video and it helps me make it through.
wow, it made my ... ( 1 day ago by kazumijaylouiseramos)
wow, it made my heart break, I am so touch with this,it is very hard for me to quit smoking but now it made me easier. you helped me and other people a lot. Thank you so much and God Bless you all, please pray for me..
It helped mee too ... ( 1 day ago by PeterKristl)
It helped mee too to stop smoking. And also to my wife. Thank to you and your mother.
That's awesome!!! ( 1 day ago by sonicbondage)
That's awesome!!!
I didn't realize at ... ( 1 day ago by sonicbondage)
I didn't realize at the time what we were doing with the video, but like you said getting it out there for people to see helps make quitting easier.
Good luck on your QUIT!
You are prayed for- ... ( 1 day ago by sonicbondage)
You are prayed for---To have the determination to quit and to become healthy!
Thank you and I ... ( 1 day ago by sonicbondage)
Thank you and I hope it will make a huge difference.
I hope as many ... ( 15 hours ago by buktopster)
I hope as many people as possible see this video. I hope it prevents them from smoking. I myself do not smoke and never have. My mother on the other hand smokes ever since I can remember and I hope I do not go through this hell myself. May your mother rest in peace and make a difference for the smokers.
Also a friend of ... ( 15 hours ago by buktopster)
Also a friend of the family was diagnosed in October with lung cancer and died in December. The last few weeks of his life were really hard and I sure miss him. If it was up to me I would ban smoking from everywhere...
I've quit smoking 1 ... ( 3 hours ago by Orted1978)
I've quit smoking 1 month ago. This video help me to stay away from cigaretes. Thanks for You and 4 your Mother.



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