THE SLUT FACTOR!!!



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Puttin' myself out there again. I hope one of you can understand that all that you're doing is unnecessary and that if you don't love yourself first, no one else will be able to love you at all.


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This was great. ( 6 months ago by aatelfer)
This was great.
OMG....i think this ... ( 6 months ago by FreyaMarsha)
OMG....i think this is a very curagious and healing process for you,and also for your children, don't pass this trauma on to your children PLSE ;-) Thank you for sharing, stay strong!
Hi FreyaMarsha! ... ( 6 months ago by barstowmama)
Hi FreyaMarsha! Unfortunately history does repeat itself and I have 11 children, so someone is going to go in the wrong direction and all I can do is be there for him or her. That's what happens!
Thanks aatelfer! :-) ( 6 months ago by barstowmama)
Thanks aatelfer! :-)
Tough to re-live so ... ( 6 months ago by barstowmama)
Tough to re-live so much trauma in life, but if it helps someone else...I do it gladly. Thanks for commenting. :-)
Thanks TruthFan! It ... ( 6 months ago by barstowmama)
Thanks TruthFan! It was on my heart for so long that I had to tell the story. I'm sure there are more, and when they rear their ugly heads...I'll make sure you all hear about it. :-)
It was on my heart ... ( 6 months ago by barstowmama)
It was on my heart and I wanted to touch at least one more. If someone was in the same position, maybe they would see themselves in me and just STOP! I hope it worked. :-)
God watches over ... ( 6 months ago by barstowmama)
God watches over whom HE will. I just believe he watched over me. If you see part 2 of this you'll understand why. But for those who fell prey to other instances, all I can say is "there's a time to be born and a time to die..." maybe it was just their time and not mine.
Love you back ... ( 6 months ago by barstowmama)
Love you back rayvonte! You know it's courageous for you to put yourself out there even in this comment because it's opening up yourself. You are a very courageous young woman and I appreciate your comment more than you could know. Thanks for sharing with all of us!
Hi Sweetsweetcandy. ... ( 6 months ago by barstowmama)
Hi Sweetsweetcandy...! It is sad and that's why I just wanted to touch one young girls life and hope and pray it's not to late. I'm glad you were raised old school...it's the best way.
Amen 7SoulSistah7.. ... ( 6 months ago by barstowmama)
Amen 7SoulSistah7...Amen! It should be for men also! No one is immune and all should adhere to remaining chaste and loving themselves. Too many viruses, sexually transmitted diseases and not to mention their own mental health!
You are easy to ... ( 6 months ago by netromdnul)
You are easy to understand. You should teach the teachers, to boost your points.
Kudos 4 you!!! ... ( 6 months ago by bailey1950)
Kudos 4 you!!! Everyone has done things that we are not proud of BUT you learned from you mistakes and move on.. Thank you for sharing... You have a heart of gold.. BTW: School is out!!!!
YOU are blessed! ... ( 6 months ago by GMPNY)
YOU are blessed! This should be played in every high school in America! Thank you for putting this out there. The key sentence really in this whole vlog is "KNOW YOUR WORTH" because thats the whole thing in a nut shell. Girls THINK very often that even a one night stand is some sort of love & its not. It breaks my heart to see young women behaving this way and I think "If they ONLY loved themselves just a little they would NEVER do this" You did a good thing here by posting this vlog Thanks! :-)
I liked your ... ( 6 months ago by stripe66506)
I liked your message.
But I disagree with you on one point. As a man, though I'm not "receptive" in the sexual act, I feel like I've absorbed some of the essence (both good and bad) of every woman I've slept with. I don't think sleeping around is for anybody man or woman.
wow disz was qreat ... ( 5 months ago by THiCkUMSz7)
wow disz was qreat im only 17 nd disz isz how i feel nd i aint even qrown lol nd disz isz why i respect myself nd my body nd wont just loose it ta any person im so glad fa disz vid hopefully like yu said sumone will be inspired nd will listen nd it will chanqe them im ratinq this 5 stars nd i dont rate nd addinq it as my fav ;]
Kudos for this vid! ... ( 5 months ago by GlamorCouture)
Kudos for this vid!..
Much respect love it<3
Wow, good video ... ( 5 months ago by nuclearfall)
Wow, good video there.
Jeez this almost ... ( 5 months ago by RissaRiot)
Jeez this almost made me cry. You know what scratch that almost part haha. True and right on on SO many levels.
Wow...This is a ... ( 5 months ago by TheLadyTS)
Wow...This is a wonderful video. Thank you for sharing...Great advice!
Thank you so much ... ( 3 months ago by babydoll7462)
Thank you so much for this. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you! What a blessing and be blessed.
wow this is sooo ... ( 3 months ago by bloodmzez)
wow this is sooo deep. i have soo much respect for u. for u to put urself out there like u do....u r very strong and u r one of the realist people on this Earth. thanx for bein u and keep up the good work<3 luv ya
*shay
I love your aspect. ... ( 3 months ago by broadcastdunn)
I love your aspect. You have said the truth and truth has been said.
Your A Diva.. Good ... ( 2 weeks ago by GetToKnowMariii)
Your A Diva.. Good Job Girl!!!!!



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